the grapevine
(Issue #28; October 1, 1997)

(CM/FM)

Copyright 1997 by The Family

         The Grapevine
         PO Box 4938
         Orange, CA 92863 USA
         e-mail: grape@ibm.net

The Grapevine consists of news and views from Family members, and is not intended to reflect WS policy.

Suggested reading age for this publication is JETTs and up. Parents or shepherds may read with or allow portions to be read by younger ages, at their discretion.

kidbits

teeny tots
         * Robin, born to Hungarian Joanna and Richard.--Russia
         * Andrei, 2nd child, born to Russian Dove and Ivan.--Russia
         * Nicolas, born to Meekness and Isaac.--Reunion Island
         * Francesco, born to Claire and Joseph.--Italy
         * Andrew Trusting, born to Liberty and Michael.--Hungary
         * Jared Brook, 5th child, born to Joan and Stephen (SGAs) on June 18th.--Hungary
         * Sayuri, born to Lily Doorkeeper on June 30th.--Japan
         * Benjamin, 14th child, born to Rachel on June 30th.--Holland
         * Virginia Vivian, 1st child, born to Romanian Clara and Matthew CR on July 1st.--Romania
         * Tristen Michelle, born to Joy Phoenix on July 21st.--North America
         * Corey Wakan, born to Rose and David on July 23rd.--North America
         * Cora, 1st child, born to Jessica and Joseph on July 23rd.--North America
         * Eric Daniel, 1st child, born to Marie and Joshua on July 23rd.--North America
         * Terence Liam, born to Jewel and Levi on July 28th.--North America
         * Jordan, born to Debbie and Michael Tree on July 29th.--North America
         * Anishoara Victoria, 2nd child, born to Russian Slava and Romanian Sam on July 31st.--Romania
         * Katrina Trust, born to Faith and Peter on July 31st.--North America
         * Rubina, born to Joan on August 2nd.-- Japan
         * Baby (no name given) born to Gloria and Siervo Peregrino on August 2nd.--North America
         * Kyle Kentaro, born to Ginny and Jasper on August 4th.--Japan
         * Jason David, born to Heaven and Aaron on August 5th.--North America
         * Samuel, born to Crysolite and Chris on August 19th.--Japan
         * Baby girl (no name given), born to Anne and Marty on August 23rd.--Taiwan
         * Caryse, born to Sharon on August 23rd.--North America
         * Troy Justin Fighter, 6thchild, born to Fe and Valiant (SGAs) on August 24th.--North America
         * Joseph Anthony Branch, born to Meek and Eman on August 29th.--North America
         * Emily Daria, born to Polish Sylvia on August 31st.--Hungary

tidbits

new disciples from August
         * Eden (23, Romanian) joined in Bucharest, Romania.
         * Pavel (24, Russian) joined in Barnaul, Russia.
         * Natasha (23, Russian) joined in Volgograd, Russia.
         * Dennis (21, Ukrainian) joined in Yalta, Ukraine.
         * Sara Angel (22, Romanian) joined in Timisoara, Romania.
         * Gary, Susan and three children joined in North America.
         * Job, Shine and one child joined in North America.
         * Nadim Branch joined in North America.
         * Maria Raquel and four children joined in Brazil.
         * Elizabeth and one child joined in Colombia.

world news

Witness at Lady Diana's funeral
England
         (From the London Homes:) As you have probably seen in the media, the whole of the British Isles went into a state of shock and mourning at the news of the death of Diana, Princess of Wales. The shock turned to brokenness and respect as the public learned how she went beyond the call of duty to comfort those whom others had forgotten. It came to light that when she could not sleep at night, she would go out and talk to the homeless; or when meeting parents of terminally ill children, she would often stay in contact with them.
         When we phoned around to the Homes in the area, we discovered that the Lord had spoken clearly to all about using this sobering, emotional occasion as a chance to pour out His Words of hope and encouragement. He confirmed that What Heaven is Like would be an appropriate message to distribute. We held a London council to plan how to put our new commission into action. The Lord miraculously raised up a few printing companies who sympathetically agreed to print several thousand What Heaven is Like tracts, which we picked up by lunch time the next day!
         It was estimated that nearly 30,000 people camped out on the streets of London the evening before the funeral! Our team of six (from four different Homes) joined the crowds, armed with our tracts, and carrying bags of apples, which a local market had donated for us to distribute to the roadside campers. We distributed 2,000 tracts that day, which people received enthusiastically! It was a miracle how receptive people were.
         On the day of the funeral, we set off early for Hyde Park. Our vision had been to keep a very low profile; however, the vacuum for the tracts was such as we have never experienced in this country! We had prayed that morning that if it was the Lord's will, that He would help us to be able to get out a witness about Heaven and salvation on TV. Pearl saw a filming crew nearby, and they filmed her giving a brief message about Diana being in Heaven, and that as a legacy to her we should all do what we can to emulate her sample of loving and caring for others. Joan and Mary also both got to speak for both Japanese and Dubai TV.
         When the funeral service began, we felt it appropriate to "become one" with the 60,000 mourners who were gathered. The service was very touching and we found ourselves reaching for our tissues, too! When the funeral service was over, we again handed out tracts to those leaving the gathering. It was a golden opportunity to get out the Lord's message!

highlights from around the world

         * We postered at an event called "the Voice of Asia" (an annual all-Asian five-day music concert), distributing 32,000 posters!--team in Kazahkstan
         * I was among the few cancer patients at the hospital to meet Prime Minister Tony Blair and his wife on their visit. I was able to give him a light witness.--Joy, England
         * We postered at a city festival called "Day of the City" where tons of people gather for music, cultural dances, fun and activities! The people formed queues to get the posters! We were getting out 1,000 posters per half hour!--Phil and Marie, Russia
         * We were able to get a shipment of about $50,000 worth of medical equipment and supplies for the regional hospital here.--Benjamin, Lily and Mariangela, Ukraine
         * German companies donated medical equipment worth 20,000 DM which we were able to organize as humanitarian aid for a local hospital, and 5,000 DM worth of kids' shoes for local orphanages and poor families.--Adam, Angelica, Christine and Jasmine, Russia
         * We went to the three-day "Grushenski" festival in the outskirts of Samara, which is like the Woodstock of Russia--140,000 people from 180 cities across the country flocked to attend. Joining with the local Homes, we were able to get out 25,000 pieces of lit!--Crystal, Russia
         * Simon and three children were interviewed and filmed (for a cable TV station; audience 60,000) while busking in Augsburg, Germany. The local Augsburg radio station also conducted a short interview with us, and recorded the children singing a few songs.--Simon, Renee and Claire, Greece

brotherhood

Holland
         (From Amos:) We held a teen and OC camp for about 30 kids, mostly Fellow members, but some non-Family kids came too. Some teens had formerly been in the Family, and were not so keen on having any spiritual input. Others had never been in the Family but wanted a taste of the Family style of living. Others were FM teens who love Jesus and who have never been in a CM Home; others wanted to possibly drop out. We had different spiritual levels of OCs as well.
         The mornings were spent in inspiration and Bible studies. Daniel and Philip from the Ukraine came to help us. Dust from Belgium came to help with the OCs. Silas, Cheer and Lily from Siberia were passing through, as well as Martin, Marie and kids from Russia, and they also helped.
         No matter how many different backgrounds we came from, through His love we are now all melted together as one big Family. As a result of the camp, two young people want to go CM. Many of teens who were feeling hurt by past experiences are now seeing the Family in a more positive light and want to fellowship more.

moving missionaries

         What a thrill it has been to welcome eager and enthusiastic Paula (18), Claire (17) and Irene (19) to our team. They've been on-fire witnesses, and it hasn't taken long for the results to show!--Tim, Daniel and Mercy, Korea

         Jason (YA) joined our Home from Australia.--Adam, Laura and Clara, Russia

         YAs Kento (of David and Freya), Haley (of Paul and Mercy) and Sammy are all on their way to Russia!--David and Freya, Japan

legal and media

Russia
         (From Tommy and Nadia:) The new revised version of the bill restricting religious freedom has been passed by the Duma. The law still needs to be signed by the Upper House of Parliament as well as by Yeltsin, but it seems it's a foregone conclusion that they will sign it. (Editor's note: Yeltsin has now signed it.)
         Unfortunately, Yeltsin has given in on most of the main points in the restrictive bill. The new text retains the basic idea of a two-tier religious system and keeps a 15-year probation period before any new group can achieve the higher level. Officially registered groups will be able to own property, register as legal entities, teach religion to their followers and engage in charitable activities. But they will still have to wait 15 years before they are considered full-blown organizations. In the meantime, they will not be allowed to publish literature, own mass media, have access to state schools, prisons and orphanages, or set up their own professional educational establishments.
         Almost every country in Eastern Europe is now considering legislation to curb the religious freedom of NRMs and other nontraditional groups. (Editor's note: Please pray for the Family in Russia, that the Lord will miraculously keep this law from affecting our witness adversely.)

Europe
         (From the EURCRO Media Desk:) France - Gideon and Rachel attended the "21st Century Challenges to Religious Liberty in Europe" conference (held August 2-3), organized by the Rutherford Institute. They gave out an information pack, and were able to meet many old and new friends, as well as glean much information on the religious liberty issue around Europe.
         Holland - Gideon and Rachel also attended the CESNUR conference on "Magic, the Millennium and NRMs" (held August 7-8). A session on The Family was chaired by Eileen Barker. Other academics also gave speeches or presentations on us, including one called "The Family's Children and Their Perception of the Endtime," by Amanda from INFORM.
         Germany - We found out (belatedly) that an ACM forum was held in June, attended by ACM and government representatives from around Europe. The Family wasn't the main topic in any of the discussions, but there was a display on the "Family of Love" containing some pictures from past FF pubs. From what we can gather, the EE ACMers were given counsel on how to fight a more active campaign against cults. We believe this is what set off the Ukrainian ACM's latest campaign. A follow-up conference is being held in Budapest in September.
         Romania - A 370-page encyclopedia on religions in Romania has been completed. The entry on the Family is short and factual, with only minor errors.
         Ukraine - The prison ministry continues to bear good fruit and the director of Ukrainian prisons is very inspired and supportive of our work. They expressed their thankfulness to us, and told us that because of our programs, some prisons have drastically changed for the better.

pioneering

[Fact Box: Tyva or Tuva, republic in Siberia. Tyva is one of the 21 Russian republics, which are the administrative units with the greatest amount of autonomy within the Russian Federation. Tyva has a population of about 306,300 (1994). They speak a Turkic language influenced by Mongolian, that has four principal dialects.]

Tuva
         (From Piper:) I recently got an invitation to go Krasnoyarsk to join up with Daniel Mountain, one of the early pioneers of Russia, and go on to the city of Kyzyl, capital of the Frontier Republic of Tuva. A friend of mine who lives in Irkutsk (on the southern tip of Lake Baikal) had just driven up (a three-day drive), as he had some business to do in Novosibirsk. I hitched a ride back with him, which saved about 200,000 rubles ($40). That doesn't sound like much, but here it feeds five people for a week! After 15 hours of what felt like off-road driving, we arrived in Krasnoyarsk.
         Our team was composed of Daniel and his Russian wife, Lena, eight-month-old Junior, Katrina L. (18, Daniel's eldest daughter) and myself. The Lord supplied free bus tickets to the city of Abakahn, halfway to our destination. When we arrived, we found that there were no seats left for the only bus to Kyzyl, but there were four places reserved, and if not claimed, we could have them. Not wanting to spend a night in Abakahn, we prayed desperately and then passed out posters while waiting. Sure enough, the Lord got us on the bus.
         The Republic of Tuva is located south of the Sayan mountains, which are over 1000 meters higher than the famous Urals that divide Europe and Asia. There is no railway system there, which is the primary means of transportation in the rest of Russia.
         At about 3:00 A.M. we stopped at the border check. As the soldiers marched to the back of the bus and began checking passports, I started to pull my passport out--not worrying--as the visas we had were supposed to be valid for the entire Russian Federation. But as they got closer, I had an urge to pray that they would not check our passports. I was not sure why, but I began praying desperately. Daniel was also in prayer. They had already kicked a few people off the bus, and were only one seat behind us when they stopped for no apparent reason, walked right by us and told the driver he could go. At the time we didn't know that if they would have checked our passports, our road trip would have been short-lived.
         We provisioned a hotel for our entire stay. At hotels here you have to give them your passports, and they will register you with the OVIR (visa office). We found out that we were not actually allowed to be in the city without a special invitation, but the ladies that worked there were very sweet and they worked it out for us to get registered anyway--or so we thought.
         With all that legal work seemingly out of the way, after a short nap, we went to explore the city. We walked downtown, giving posters to everyone we saw. The Tuvinian people are of Mongolian descent, although there are a few Russians. They are friendly and open to the message. They loved the posters. That afternoon 20 people prayed with us to receive Jesus.
         The next day we went again to the main square and to the market to pass out posters, which went out like hotcakes. On the way back to our hotel room we were told that we had an appointment with the top dog at the OVIR.
         "They shouldn't have let you in at the border!" he said. "You cannot be here without an invitation from an organization! I went to America once, and they didn't let me freely roam the country." Hey, the cold war is over! I thought to myself. "Oh sorry, we didn't know that," we said, "but we will get an invitation." "Okay, but you must first pay a fine and go back to Krasnoyarsk," was the reply.
         "But sir, we just spent 18 hours on a bus getting here, and we have a baby with us. We couldn't afford to make the trip again. Can't we get the invitation while we are here? The ladies already gave us the stamp. We only want to stay one week."
         "I am a communist and I am proud of it. I believe in the law. Sorry, I wish I could help you. But," he said, pointing to the stars on his uniform, "the law is the law. And," he added, "if the guys next door (KGB building) find out that you're here, you'll really be in trouble."
         He finally forgave us the fine and gave us 24 hours to leave. "Well, we've got 24 hours. Let's see what we can do." We grabbed our posters and hit the city. The people were as receptive as ever; 120 people prayed to receive the Lord. The next day we visited a monument marking the geographical center of Asia, and another 54 people prayed! We provisioned bus tickets for the next bus out. It left at 6:30 the next morning, which meant overstaying our grace period.
         Upon arrival at the bus station the next morning, after sneaking carefully by the OVIR and KGB buildings, we found that the bus was canceled because only four people had bought tickets and that wouldn't cover costs. The guy who gave us the free tickets said that he wished that he could help us, and told us to come back in an hour and he would try to work something out.      We sat on the curb and ate our breakfast, then gave out posters and a bunch more people got saved. Then Daniel and Lena went back to talk to the bus director. We prayed, "God give us a car out of here. Show Your power, Lord! Let's see something happen!" Just then, Daniel and Lena walked back: "We got a car!" Praise God! The director found a driver to take us for free to a city half an hour from Abakahn, and the company paid the gas. A total of 207 souls had been saved, and 9,500 posters distributed--we were out of there! It was a great drive, through forest and snow, sandy desert plains and mountains that went through the clouds.
         One of the two hotels in the city gave us two rooms for the night. It just so happens that this town was the place that Vladimir Lenin was exiled to before starting the revolution. An entire part of the village has been preserved and turned into a museum. It was an interesting look into Russia's past.
         The Krasnoyarsk Home knew the director of the company which runs the bus back to Novosibirsk, and he agreed to take me back free of charge. Long distance buses are actually uncommon in Russia, as the train is the principal means of transport and far more comfortable. But so far going by train means paying, as we haven't found out how to provision them yet; a complex system runs them.
         The bus going back had several engine breakdowns, but with a few split two-by-fours wedged into some key places, it was back and running. At 2:00 A.M. I awoke; something cold had hit my forehead. My heart nearly stopped, and many things ran through my head in that moment. When I opened my eyes, I saw a machine gun in my face. The guy apologized, explaining that he was just walking down the aisle checking the bus, and my head was hanging there. He was the equivalent of your state trooper or highway patrolman. Something always happens to make life more exciting here--as if hammering two-by-fours into the engine wasn't enough, ha!
         It was a great trip--despite the Enemy trying to stop us. The totals for our six-day road trip were 10,000 posters distributed, 253 souls won, and hundreds of sweet people witnessed to!

babymania

         To all those of you who give of yourselves daily in the care of those precious little lives, here is a wonderful and encouraging thought from a fellow mother:

         (From Joy [of Dan], USA:) I'm looking at motherhood from another perspective, beyond the initial years of diaper changing and midnight feeds, past happy potty time and a hundred scraped knees. I'm a grandma and a mommy rolled into one, as many of our FGA mommies are. One blessed thought I want to share with you younger moms as you face what looks like a mountain of a lifetime of mothering is: It is worth it all!
         It is a wonderful feeling to look at my SGAs and see how the Lord has worked in their lives. It gives me peace and a vision for the little ones still in my arms. I had the precious privilege of seeing the Summit videos and hearing the tearful voices of my children dedicating their lives to the Lord. It was a moment that is generally reserved for Heaven, realizing that my rewards will not be limited to the little I have accomplished for the Lord, but that I will also be blessed for all that my children go on to do for Him.
         So during those hours in the night keeping watch, smiling when you want to cry, singing as you pray for patience, wiping little noses as you dream of doing great things for God, just remember that you are. You will never regret one prayer, one song, one loving word, which will reach out to them and through them. And after the years of taking it all by faith, someday you--like me--will be blessed at seeing what they have become.

         (Jaz:) And in conclusion, here are some beautiful quotes which were sent in by Jewel in Nepal, and which we present here in honor of all of you sacrificial and hard-working mothers.

         All mothers are rich when they love their children.
         There are no poor mothers, no ugly ones, no old ones.
         Their love is always the most beautiful of joys.
         --Maurice Maeterlinck (1862-1949)

         She broke the bread into two fragments and gave them to the children, who ate with avidity.
         "She hath kept none for herself," grumbled the Sergeant.
         "Because she is not hungry?" said a soldier.
         "Because she is a mother," said the Sergeant.
         --Victor Hugo

support-a-missionary

         -- 65 million Turkish people are waiting for Words of David. New pioneer field producing tools in Turkish. -- -- Please send donations to Istanbul PPC via your CRO. E-mail: rainbow@service.raksnet.com.tr
         -- Pioneer Home in the PI needs support! Michael, Charity and three children (recent arrivals), with James, Trust (from Prayer List #31) and seven children. Please send via your TRF. Thanks!
         -- We have four wonderful kids and are involved in music festivals, workshops, seminars, clown shows, summer camps and youth witnessing. Gifts are appreciated!--Frank (formerly Timmy PI) and Magdalene, Mideast

studio news

Free Zone (compiled from the FTTs for a Christian audience)

SIDE A:
1. MORE BLESSED TO GIVE (4:29)
Lead vocal: Jerry
Back-up vocals: Martin, John Listen, Keiko, Sunny
Music and lyrics by: Jerry

2. BEHOLD (3:04)
Lead vocal: John Listen
Back-up vocals: Francesco
Lyrics: (from Psalms 134)
Music by: David Z., Andrew V.

3. WINGS IN PRAYER (5:01)
Lead and back-up vocals: Angelique
Music and lyrics by: Anne L.

4. WHEN'S THE LAST TIME? (4:12)
Vocals: Sunny, Andrew V.
Music and lyrics by: Jeff Broer

5. FADE AWAY (3:41)
Lead vocal: Shawn, Mark Tender
Back-up vocals: Amor, Heidi, Shawn, Mark Tender
Lyrics by: Joy Farmer
Music by: Shawn

6. TAP INTO THE POWER (4:12)
Lead vocal: Nick Fogarty
Back-up vocals: Sunny, Hopie, Keiko
Lyrics and music by: Sunny

7. SAFE IN YOUR ARMS (4:45)
Vocals: Clare B., Francesco
Lyrics and music by: Francesco

SIDE B:
8. JUST SAY YES (3:25)
Lead vocal: Sunny
Back-up vocals: John Listen, Sylvia
Music and lyrics by: John Listen

9. YOU'RE EVER NEAR (3:23)
Lead and back-up vocal: Lara
Music and Lyrics by: David G., BAS

10. FOOTPRINTS (4:41)
Lead vocal: Jerry
Back-up vocals: Francesco, Crystal
Music and lyrics by: Michael Piano

11. STANDING RIGHT BY ME (3:50)
Lead vocal: Katrina Danika
Back-up vocals: Katrina Danika, Jeremy, Micah, Lara
Lyrics by: Amy Bear
Music by: Amy Bear, Paulo

12. RUN TO YOU (4:26)
Lead vocals: Heidi, Amor
Back-up vocals: Amor, Heidi, Shawn, Mark Tender
Music and lyrics by: Heidi, Amor

13. CALLING YOU INTO MY LIFE (4:10)
Lead and back-up vocal: Angelique
Music and lyrics by: Anne L.

14. I'M GOIN' WALKIN' (5:54)
Lead vocal: John Listen
Back-up vocals: Sunny, Hopie
Music and lyrics by: Simon Black, John Listen

mama's mailbox

Dear Mama,
         I wanted to say that I'm very proud of you guys for having the faith to pour out the New Wine that the Lord is giving. I've had my doubts and thought some of those things were strange and weird, and that maybe you were a little off. The parallel of "strange truths" really helped me. I remember when I was a kid and would read that Letter in the TKs, I'd think, "Wow, if that was a true story, I would be on Grandpa's side. I would like the water with the cute little miniature jellyfish and sea horses and interesting things. I would dive in and swim to the source."
         The funny thing is, that's what's happening now--the prophecies, the Heaven's Library stories and Loving Jesus are the cute little jellyfish and sea horses. When I realized that, I didn't want to miss out and be like the critical people who thought the water was impure and just left.
         -- 17-year-old female

Dear Mama,
         I am very thankful that the Lord is emphasizing how important our daily witnessing is. Back in the mid-seventies, during the time of "Shiners or Shamers," I was a full-time witnesser. This was during the time when we pioneered "street-lighting" or "canning," as it was eventually called. In the fall of 1976, I was visiting Homes in Western Canada, as I was in a shepherding position at that time.
         During a devotions which I was leading, I noticed that one of the girls was staring at me. Towards the close of devotions she said, "You're the one! You're the one who gave me my first MO Letter at a stop light!" I was shocked and delighted as we talked about the day that I gave her her first MO Letter. I didn't remember her, and I never saw her again until we met in that Home. She told me that shortly after I gave her that Letter, she received the Lord and contacted the Family through the literature--and then she decided that she wanted to serve the Lord in the Family!
         --a CRO, USA

Dear Mama,
         CLE makes our children's schooling so much easier! Before, with so much moving, our children often had learning gaps. The CVC is a real plus for our kids' education; it is so grounded in the Word. Our children's education is now being made quite simple, but they really have to work hard at it and prove that they do know what they're getting their certificates for.
         After having seven children, seeing the way the scholastics is going now has been a super encouragement to me. Thank you for all the research and love that each one has poured into it.
         --Mother of seven, Thailand

Dear Maria,
         Thank you so much for these beautiful words from the Lord in GN 739, "Midlife Victories!" By the time I got to page three, I was crying for joy, after realizing that the depression and mood swings I have been going through the past two years now is pretty normal. I've had a lot of time in the Word the past year, and this has helped me a lot, but hearing fresh Word from the Lord through prophecy has helped me the most during times of battle! I have received hundreds of personal messages from Jesus, and many for others too.
         Thank you for encouraging us to use our personal gifts of hearing fresh from the Lord each day! This has kept me "sane" and not in a state of depression. These latest GNs on menopause and midlife victories gave me huge victory! TYJ!
         --an adult woman, USA

Dear Mama,
         I was listening to the beautiful music from our FTTs--how Spirit-filled and inspired they are. I'm so happy that these teens and SGAs [who are producing the FTTs] have the vision of what it's all about, which is loving Jesus and living for Him. Some of our young people have given up their heritage and have chosen to live a more worldly lifestyle where they can listen to System music, watch television and have their independence.
         Usually only during our younger years are the desires for System music and independence so strong. Generally, when we mature and have children of our own, these things have very little value in our lives and become minor issues compared to the greater responsibilities of parenthood and adult life. Being a teenager is only a fleeting moment compared to our whole lives. Why give up everything the Lord has for us just because of a temporary desire in our lives for a certain type of music or independence?
         --Mother of 10, Australia

notices

Local productions
         (From WS:) Many of you have requested that local productions be made available to all the Family, such as BMTs for a Christmas performance, shows, etc. If your Home has put together a local production (a specialized local language follow-up class or magazine, seminar course, BMTs, etc.) that you feel other Homes could benefit from and order from you, then please send in a specific but concise announcement to the Grapevine, along with an e-mail or postal address at which interested folks can contact you. (Of course, those interested in ordering would need to cover costs.) Then all can benefit from your efforts! (Please note that this would not apply to mass distribution outreach tools, unless, as per the Charter, you have received WS or CRO approval for your tool to be distributed outside of your country.) Thanks.

Going to Ghana?
Ghana
         (From Steven and Maria:) If so, please contact us so that we can give you helpful information and help coordinate our efforts in this country. Upon entry, you only get a 30-day visa; you have to know someone inside the country who can get you a longer visa. Finding housing can be difficult; landlords generally ask for one year's rent in advance. We would be happy to help any teams wanting to set up on a more permanent basis. E-mail: ces@ces.aau.org. Add: Mark, PO Box C1146, Cantonements, Accra, Ghana.

friendly factoid

         Q: When we send in "kidbits" through our CRO office, by the time they are published, our newborns are already four or five months old. We have now decided to write you directly. We should have thought of this before, right?--group of mothers
         A: (Grapevine editors:) Better late than never! If and when possible, please do send your kidbits, testimonies and news direct to the Grapevine, either by e-mail or post, thus saving your CRO office time as well. However, if you don't have access to e-mail, but are able to send your contributions via modem, then send it to your ABM and ask them to forward it on to our GV e-mail address. (If that's not possible, then send it to us via your CRO office.) Thanks!

think deep

         The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook.

what's up?

Meeting Bill Pinkney
Japan
         (From Gabe and Honey Moonshine:) We went with a team to the Yokota Air Base where they were having their bi-annual air show and activities. We distributed tracts to the thousands of people in attendance. Gabe and I met Bill Pinkney from the original Drifters band of the '60s, as the group was playing for one of the main attractions there. We gave him the "Signs of the Times" and "Lion, Dragon and the Beast" posters. He was turned on when we told him it was a Christian message with a Bible study.

First Lady of Poland
Thailand
         (From ASCRO:) The children of the DF Home were invited to participate at the 20th anniversary of LOT (Poland's National Airline) in Southeast Asia. The guest of honor was the wife of the President of Poland, along with other Polish dignitaries who visited Thailand for this occasion, after having attended Mother Teresa's funeral. The children were able to sing three songs and it went very well.
         During their last number, the manager of LOT Bangkok introduced the team from the Family to the First Lady. She was very appreciative of the children, and commended them for their good performance. James was able to talk to her a little bit about some of the Family's work in Poland. She said that she would be interested in working together with us in Poland. The children also had an audience with her, and presented her with a tape and brochure.

Rock festival
Hungary
         (From Jonathan [of Mary] and Andy:) Every year near the end of the summer, Budapest hosts a week-long rock festival on a small island on the Danube River. Young people from all over Hungary, and travellers from around the world attend. They come with their backpacks and tents, and many camp out for the entire week. Each day at four p.m. the music starts and goes on into the early morning, blaring from the six stages scattered around the island.
         For the last several years the Family has set up campsites on the island to reach the thousands of young people who attend. This year our team of young people spent the entire week on the island, ready and available to witness at any time--day or night. We had a large campsite and the Family logo marking it, so interested young people could find us. We gave out thousands of Gospel tracts to the spiritually hungry hippie-type youth, and sang our spirit-filled songs nightly (for up to six hours a night!) at our campfire. One young person commented that this was the only place on the island where he found peace. Nearly 1000 people accepted Jesus as their Savior in one-on-one witnessing.

Mission field changes kids
India
         (From Luke, Joy, Crystal:) Coming to India has been a life-changer for our JETTs; we've seen a visible change in their lives. Our JETT son, who by nature is a bit shy, has been on fire and boldly witnessing, to our amazement, and even talking to four and five people at a time, making jokes, and relating to the youth--it's a prayer come true. We sent our two JETTs out the other night with a YA and a national, and they came back beaming--they had won 40 souls!

Prison adventures
Russia
         (From Genty, Mark Y. and all the NUTs:) The Lord opened the door for us to meet the general in charge of a large number of high security prisons about 12 hours north (by train) in a city called Solikamsk. Solikamsk in Russian is taken from the phrase "salt by the Kama River," since there are many salt mines in the surrounding area. The prisoners were sent here to labor in these and other mines; hence the expression, "sent to work in the salt mines in Russia."
         The general took care of our food, transport and lodging for the duration of our stay, and even sent a personal escort to accompany us on our travels. We never thought we would be travelling in the wee hours of the morning over rugged mountain terrain, through rivers, valleys and fields, sleeping in army barracks and eating prison food! Thank the Lord, we had no casualties, although our two PGs were in for quite a ride!
         We went to one of the most well-known prisons in Russia-- "Byeli Lyebyed," which means "White Swan." Those incarcerated in these high security prisons were extremely touched by our songs and the box skit, to the point of tears. During our travels, we distributed 8,000 posters, and 500 souls were won for the Kingdom of Heaven! TYJ! We are planning a follow-up trip in the winter, as there are prisons that are reachable in the winter when the ice covers the rivers and rough roads!

Going strong at 70
Mexico
         (From Jo Fisher, Crystella, Ben and Ruth:) We wanted to share a testimony about a live-out member of our Home. She is nearly 70 years old and used to be a full-time Family member, but due to her age and the pressure of our busy Homes, she found it better to live on her own. She continues to report monthly and faithfully sends in her tithe to help the work. Her life has been a sample to many as she faithfully goes out each day and witnesses. She made a goal for herself that she wouldn't let a day go by without getting out at least one tape, as well as witnessing and winning some souls. Her stats each month reflect this; she consistently gets out over 60 tapes a month, as well as hundreds of tracts, posters and other literature.
         Often she writes us and asks for prayer for her many infirmities. The other day she told us on the phone that she had a dream in which she was preparing for a long trip. All of her suitcases were white, and angels were coming to get her. She said she felt the Lord would be taking her Home soon, but that she would keep doing her best until He came for her. Please remember Maria in your prayers.

I'm wondering ...

         Q: Can CM members moving to FM status keep copies of the HomeARC CD-ROM?--David and Freya, Japan
         A: (From WS:) The present HomeARC (Volume 1) is CM/FM, so, yes, they can keep this version.

         Q: Can FMers order lit from their LIM or Lit-Pic like CMers can?--David and Freya, Japan
         A: (From WS:) Yes, FM members can order CM/FM lit, as well as CM lit that is listed under the Charter as being available to FMers (MLs up to Vol.17, etc.) from their LIM, Lit-Pic or SC.

         Q: I'm getting a spirit story that seems to have a number of chapters. Should I wait until I have received the entire story before sending it in, or should I send in the chapters as I receive them?
         A: (From the Heaven's Library team:) Please go ahead and send in the chapters of your spirit story as you receive them. You don't have to wait until you've gotten the story in its entirety. Thanks!

reminder

Academic Survey
         (From WS:) We trust you have received the General Social Survey questionnaire mentioned in LNF #263, from which Bill Bainbridge (an American academic) will be gathering data for his research, to be used in the book he is currently writing about the Family. He's very excited about the questionnaires he has already received from Russia, Bosnia, Africa, England and Japan! He has spoken with several people in his circle of academia about this project, and they are also very excited about it.
         We'd like to encourage as many Family members as possible to contribute to this survey by filling out the above mentioned questionnaire, and mailing it to the address provided on the form. We need at least 1,000 Family members to fill this out--will you be one? Thanks! We really appreciate your time in filling it out and mailing it off!

thanking
--for your spirit story contributions

Lorraine (20, Siberia), Christy (SGA, Europe), Mary Mom (Europe), Peace (ASCRO), Mariko (ASCRO), Matthew (of Claire, China), John M. (24, Thailand), Crystal (of Luke, India), Marie (ASCRO), Peter Picture and Esther (HCS, Japan), Dove Beloved (USA), Joanie (of David, Mideast), Peter S. (Mideast), Philip (of Faith, Thailand), Claire (19, of James and Ahlai, USA), Jace (16, Russia), Rebecca Wood (of Jared Wood, USA), Josiah PI (Romania), Peter Heart (Pakistan).

         My body ached for the warmth of my bed; I could already feel the soft pillow under my head. For the previous hour I'd been longing to push the big blue button on the side of the computer that read "off," but I had to finish my work. At last I was done--the clock read 12:05. In a daze I brushed my teeth and headed for my room. Somewhere during this time (I can't remember what happened, as I was half-asleep), I managed to pick up one of the mags that we had just received and brought it with me to my bed.
         Before turning off my light, my eyes caught the title of the mag that was now on my bedside table: it read, "The Perfect Ones." Then as if caught up by some magical force, which utterly subdued all my previous weariness, I was whisked away into a wonderful world of chivalrous knights, maidens in distress, evil bishops and treachery. With every page I turned, the greater the urgency I felt to turn the next one. My heart sank as I read the words "to be continued." It sunk even more when I realized that this mere moment that seemed to have passed actually took up an hour and a half of real time.
         As I lay in my bed, my mind couldn't leave Guillaume or Malcolm. I wondered what would happen to the fair maids--Esme and Heloise. Within moments I was riding through that wonderful medieval land trying to find a way to foil the evil Bishop Odo's plot to overthrow the kingdom. I swore to help bring justice to the commoners, help the poor and needy, and transform this land into one where everybody loved each other. I would find the hand of some beautiful young maiden. We would have lots of children, take them on hunting expeditions, and grow old together. I would build a nice little zzzzzzz.
         Well, I hope you appreciate my little story more than did the poor folks that I was supposed to cook breakfast for the following morning. They came pretty close to giving me the bucket-of-water treatment the next morning, but even if they would have, it would have been well worth it. Great going, Walter! Keep it up!
         --Steve Q.

minor improvements

Shelving childcare pubs?
         My ministries in the Family have had little to do with childcare. Recently, however, through the pubs about our kids' education, the Lord has spoken to me about the need our children have for scholastics. I got a pretty good education in the System, and although I never thought I would be teaching children, the Lord is now putting this burden in my heart. Before I'd save childcare pubs until there was nothing left to read, but now they speak to me so clearly and I enjoy reading them.
         --Peter Pilgrim, Russia

Challenge for young people
         I think it would really help if we challenge our young people that have had good scholastic training with the vision of helping to teach the kids of big families, instead of criticizing the parents for not doing a good job in training their kids. Say, "Here's a challenge for you. Make these kids smart. You'll be proud of them when they grow up." If people only knew what a wonderful feeling it is to train a child and watch him grow up in the way of the Lord, I'm sure more would want to be teachers.
         If we give the kids more of an Endtime vision, it could help them to feel more challenged in their schooling. When we were kids, we thought Jesus was coming back very soon--and He still is! We would memorize all we could so we could be good Heaven's boys and girls. We'd make plans of how we could escape into the hills, making sure our fleebags were ready, etc. If we get our kids hooked on the Word, the Endtime and the future, they're gonna blast off--further than we ever dreamed of!
         --Brisa (19), Russia

Making memories
         Though I know how to play basic songs, I'm not at all a musician. But reading those testimonies (see FSM #303) about little kids witnessing and performing--even though their parents weren't good musicians--has opened a new horizon. It seems the fondest memories the teens and YAs have from their childhood were those of witnessing. What kind of memories will my kids have?
         --Jan, Russia

Applying the Word
         I think many of our MCs, OCs and JETTs miss the challenge and excitement in the Word because of a lack of knowing how to apply it. For example: At Word time an adult will pray, "Lord, help us to apply this Word to our lives." The kids will be sitting there quite indifferent, for the simple reason that they don't know what the adult is talking about. If they knew how to apply the Word, they might not have the attitude that the Word is "something boring that we have to read for two hours a day." Personally, after learning how to apply the Word in my own life, the Word has become a lot more alive and interesting.
         --Sharyn (14), Australia

TV vs. Word
         I was interested to read Claire's "Unplugging the tube" (see Grapevine #13, page 11), as we've had the same experience. We haven't been able to afford a TV. I've been so touched by the unfamiliar sight of all six children (ages 2-13) sitting in the lounge room poring over the Word books--that's all they had! Word games and Family tapes have become very popular! We were concerned that our 13-year-old boy never liked to read; now he's an avid reader.
         --Peace (of Eman), Madagascar

Banning everything
         "That's a no-no!" we often hear at our childcare Home council. The subject is: boys (young ones)! "Let's make a list of off-limits: no more indoor games; no more gum (totally banned); no more recess (too rowdy)." Might as well ban get-out!
         Sound familiar? Hey, boys are boys! I know you want peace in your Home, but this is not the way to go about it! If you ban everything, you'll find them doing it even more! Give them time to run off their energies! Try to be the type of person they like to be around, and they'll call you "the good ol' guy who makes us laugh!"
         --female teen, Asia

Excursion money
         We decided to put a certain amount of funds aside for activities and excursions for the children, and the Lord blessed it. Prior to that, the children went through a period where there were no activities or outings due to a lack of funds, and they had become a bit discouraged. Now we have been able to have an inspiring excursion weekly!
         --Joshua, Faith and Martin, Belgium

Adopt-a-child
         As a Home, we decided to have an "adopt a child" type of program, where each Home member who has no children adopts one of our Home's children. They become a special prayer warrior for that child and try to spend a little time--even if just a few minutes--with that particular child daily.
         --Baruc, Ruthie, Gideon and David, Romania

Human parents
         We are learning to find the balance between being overly strict with our children and being too lenient. We want them to grow, be well-behaved, and we desire to pour into them as much training as we can. Even if we have "perfect" children, if we haven't taught them to love, then we will have failed them. We are seeing the need to let our kids see the human side of us as well, and not make ourselves out to be "holy parents," who make the doorknob too high for them to reach.
         --Andy and Joy, China

Appreciation evening
         We had an appreciation night for our three children. We made a special dinner, which mom and dad served. Dad played quietly on the guitar while the dinner was proceeding. We made certificates of appreciation for all of them, mentioning some specific area they are doing well in. It was a sweet evening which they treasured.
         --Valour, Trust, Christina and Katrina, Ukraine

Witnessing inconveniences
         Sometimes I feel it's too difficult to take my little one witnessing; I don't like the hassle, so often I don't do it. Seeing how other parents have taken their many children witnessing helped me to see how easy I have it by comparison, and how much more I should strive to give my little girl (2 ) opportunities to witness. I would feel very bad if her fire for witnessing was dampened by my not doing it because of the little inconveniences it may occasionally present.
         --Shawn and Beth, Russia

Family Day Bible class
         I have begun giving Endtime Bible classes to our 12 OCs/JETTs on Family Day. It took some time for the kids to want to study the Word on their Family Day, but it is now one of the high points of our day. Each child brings their Bible, notebook, pens and ruler to class, and I'm teaching them to mark their Bibles with a good fine-point pen, do cross-referencing, etc.
         There are so many of us "old timers" who received a good foundation of Bible/Endtime classes when we were babes. We have a tremendous wealth of knowledge and information which would thrill our kids if we would just pour it out to them in a way that they could understand and receive.
         --Byron (of Marie), Indonesia

letters to the editor

         A very loud applause for Korie's article in Grapevine #23. Definitely a shining example to all of living the Law of Love. GBY, Korie! Shine on.
         --Ben (17), Venezuela

         To give a bit of the other side regarding the issue of "Were we a cult?" (see Grapevine #21): While I commend John for his inspired letter, and I share his zeal and agree with most of what he contends, particularly how the System has tried to dupe us with its "democracy," I still have to say that with the onset of the Charter and our maturing through the years, we have learned to pull away from some unloving methods, crazy hurtful things we did, and even some practices that I would consider "cultish"--like the unreasonable control exerted by well-meaning shepherds and leaders (including myself) over their flock down to the tiniest details of life; extreme legalism and over-spiritualizing trifles; making doctrines out of minor details; assuming everyone had to operate in the same rigid way.
         Thank God we are more enlightened by the Lord now and have overcome a lot of those things, many of which Dad himself tried for years to get us to correct. Lord forgive me if I am being too modern or in vogue with the latest trends, but I love the present Family more than ever!
         --Jonathan Nubes, South America

Dear Sad and Mad,
         I was also recently in a situation where two SGAs from another field visited; I had some of the same battles and observations that you had (see Grapevine #24). We have to realize that though we all follow the same "golden book," there are different degrees of standards between Homes. Just because your Home might agree to have things looser (or tighter) doesn't mean that you should expect the same from other Homes.
         When you have a Home with many small children and many different ministries, you have to have some sense of organization, a somewhat tight schedule and the Home TW does have to make announcements! Since the SGAs I'm referring to came from a Home with only young people, they can afford to be more flexible in their schedules, so I felt that for them to criticize the way our Home was operating (often unintentionally), and to freely throw around terms such as "institution," wasn't respectful.
         Perhaps our fellow young people who are in these types of "burn free" countries could make an even greater effort to encourage those who don't get a lot of fellowship with folks their own age. Let them know that you admire them for shticking it out--instead of making them feel that there is a better life somewhere else!
         --Mary (YA), Asia

your views on issues

Tract talks for you
Thailand
         (From Sarah I.:) Being in Thailand and not knowing the language, I sometimes feel burdened that I can't witness to people. But I do give out tracts, and I always say a little prayer that the tract will reach the person's heart where I can't. When they read the first line about love, they always smile. I know the Lord will do it. The Letter "Instant Witnessing" was a super encouragement to me of how He is going to do it.

Dirty shoes
Poland
         (From Heidi:) Have you ever had somebody walk into your nursery or living room with their big boots on--where the little ones are playing on the floor, and are putting everything that they can get ahold of into their mouths? Since maybe there is no need in some Homes to change shoes when coming from the outside, it might help to have a basic understanding in the Family to ask before entering the Home what their habit is concerning this? I would really appreciate this, as it avoids hurt feelings on either side.

Senior teen and YA trainees
USA
         (From Anonymous:) I like to see senior teens on Home teamworks, as I feel that it is a challenge for them and teaches them responsibility. Several young people who have been teamwork trainees mentioned to me that they now understand what the shepherds go through; that it does take work and effort to keep a Home running well and everyone happy.
         While many senior teens and YAs seem to really want to be on teamworks, I have been concerned with the sample that these are setting on a day-to-day basis. Being a shepherd is having a shepherd's heart, being loving to your peers, and striving to be a sample of the Word and applying it in your life. However, some of these same YAs and teens waste time, watch a lot of TV, listen to the radio, don't always want to go out witnessing, knock down their fellow teens, and use some pretty rough language with their peers.
         Our younger generation really has potential, and I love to see them take their responsibility and place in learning to lead this Family, but it seems it would be good to re-envision our up-and-coming generation of the responsibilities of a teamwork position. It isn't only an administrative job; it is being a sweet and loving shepherd to the others in your Home.

ideas and tips

CVC book care
Thailand
         (From Sam and Greg, book printing team:) When we printed this book, we used a glue binding (perfect binding) rather than having this book stitched and glued, as there was a considerable difference in the cost. We have noticed, however, that the binding on some of the CVC books is not lasting, and some sections of the book are coming apart. This happens when people lay them flat open to photocopy them, which eventually can break the binding.
         A suggestion we wanted to pass on for salvaging these books, if folks are having problems with the binding, is to have them spiral bound. Many stationery shops have a simple binding machine, and they can bind a book for less than a dollar in this country. Print shops and paper dealers often have paper cutters on hand to trim off a couple of millimeters of the glue binding before getting the book spiral bound.

E-mail feeding
         I have found e-mail to be a fast, cost-efficient and fun way to feed sheep and contacts. I can now pull GP/DFO articles, quotes and pubs from the ARC to make feeding e-mails. One may think that this wouldn't have the same effect as the personal touch of a pen to paper. However, I've found it just as effective, if not more. Since I began using this method two months ago, I have gotten more responses than in the last five years via snail mail.
         --David, Joanna and Merry, Croatia

movie ratings

Movies Rated for Senior Teens and Up

HIGH SCHOOL HIGH (1996)
Jon Lovitz, Tia Carrere
         Comedy-spoof on movies such as "Lean on Me" and "Dangerous Minds," dealing with the plague in American public schools, and what both the teachers and students are up against. Zany and a little ridiculous in parts, with some foul language, as you would expect in an inner city, public high school; but the message that love and understanding is the solution makes this movie worthwhile. May not be to everyone's liking.

Movies Rated for Junior Teens and Up

COLD COMFORT FARM (1995)
Eileen Atkins, Kate Beckinsale
         Eccentric British comedy/character study about a high society girl who goes to live with her distant relatives on their spooky old farm, and tries to make a difference in their lives.

DECEPTION (1993) [a.k.a. RUBY CAIRO]
Andie MacDowell, Liam Neeson
         Mystery drama about a housewife and mother who, after hearing of her husband's death, sets out on an adventure to try to find clues about his death. Not to everyone's liking.

YEAR OF THE COMET, THE (1992)
Penelope Ann Miller, Tim Daly
         Light action-comedy about a young woman who discovers a priceless bottle of vintage wine with some intriguing consequences. Entertainment only.

Non-Recommended Movies

KEYS TO TULSA (Eric Stoltz; 1996)

how things work
--from the Grapevine editors

FIND-A-FRIEND: If you wonder why your request hasn't been printed immediately, it may be because

         1) it takes time to reach us (via snail mail)
         2) since we print them in the order in which they are received, there are a few more "in line" before yours
         3) your request didn't fit within the "find-a-friend" umbrella (but was rather a mate-wanted ad, searching for new pen-pals, etc.). The purpose for "find-a-friend" is to help you locate someone that you're truly out of touch with, and need to contact.
         4) we happen to know where that person lives, and forwarded your request to them directly, via their CRO office
         5) or, Lord forbid, we didn't receive your request. If you notice that your request hasn't been printed within four to six weeks, please re-send it. Thanks!

WANT ADS: We've received a number of want ads to be printed which are basically requests for personnel to join your Home. We're sorry to say that we're unable to print these, as if we did, the Grapevine would turn into a worldwide personnel bulletin, which is already covered by the CRO want-ad bulletins. Please send your requests for personnel or a team to work with to your local CRO bulletin. If you want it to go to the entire Family, then your CRO office can send your request to the other CRO areas, who would to able to print your ad in their local bulletin, thus giving you "worldwide coverage."
         The one exception to our above want ad policy concerns WS want ads. While the Grapevine is your newspaper, it is also the only forum for WS-related want ads. Thus, from time to time, we will print want ads from WS, similar to the want ads that you are able to have published in your local bulletin. This can include want ads or personnel requests from the CROs, LIMs, or other such WS-overseen situations.

ws want ads

         Hi, this is Mary Mom (CRO). I am looking for foster parents for my six youngest children, ages 5-13. You could be a couple, or a single male. The reason I say "male" and not "female" is because I have four young boys who need lots of action. Right now I live in Italy, but I move often. If you are interested or need more info, please contact me through EURCRO. TYSM! Love you tons!

         (From Peter:) I recently visited with Mary and the other European CROs, and would personally like to appeal for someone to help her with her children. Mary has so much she could offer the Homes, but because she doesn't have someone who is committed to helping her with her children, she can't accomplish all the Lord wants her to. She needs someone who will be willing to really give of themselves in order to make her ministry possible. Is that someone you?

find-a-friend

         -- Ronny wants to get in contact with L.C. (of Bernardo and Suzanna). E-mail: 2 ronny37@usa.net!
         -- Pancho and Susie (Ecuador) would like to contact Samuel and Ana (Venezuelan). E-mail: mrmantil@pi.pro.ec. Add: Casilla 17-07-9073 Quito, Ecuador
         -- Heaven Love (Uruguayan, in Brazil) is looking for Matthew CR, last heard of in Russia. Contact me via the Brazil ABM's ASAP.
         -- Keren (of Jordan and Maria) would like to contact Vida (of Steven and Mariangela) and Paloma Blanca. Please contact me ASAP. E-mail: chalot@pi.pro.ec. Add: Hannah Alvarado, Casilla 17-21-1565 Quito, Ecuador
         -- James and Anna (Santiago and Barbara, in Peru in 1985), please write Salomon (Felipe) at e-mail: <ASfamilia@computextos.com.pe>.
         -- Natalie (17) is looking for Maria (of Ricky and Elaine). Contact me through the ABM or write to: PO Box 571573, Houston, TX 77257-1573
         -- David (Isaiah Selah) and Joy would like to contact Job and Rose Clown (last heard from in Taiwan). E-mail: archive@netcom.ca.
         -- Daniel Gypsy (French) and Christina (Nepalese), please contact Chris (Daniel SD.) and Ruthie. Add: P.O. BOX 240, Tanshui, 251 Taipei, Taiwan. E-mail: gemcr@asiaonline.net.tw
         -- Liz (of French Philip), contact Breeze. Add: Russia 394000, Glavpochtamt Box 426, Voronezh.

former members seeking contact
--sent in by 1-800 team, USA

         -- Carol Bernard is looking for a Family member named Jeriah Seeker; would like to correspond with him via e-mail. E-mail: childpoverty@sympatico.ca.
         -- Omega Carpenter would like to get in touch with any Family members who remember him. Add: James Flanders, PO Box 809, Camp Wood, TX 78833.
         -- Seth Eckersley is trying to get in touch with his father, Bob Dumont (Job). Add: 1000 S. Nova, Apt. 1406, Daytona Beach, FLA 32114. E-mail: lynson9ronet@hotmail.
         -- Aaron and Pearl would like to get in touch with friends in the Family, including Asaph and Olivet and Andrew and Esther. Add: Jean and Lata Golay, 52 Clubhouse Dr #20 A, Woodbury, CT 06798-3205.
         -- Abel (Antonio Jiminez) would like to get in touch with Windy (Darlene). Add: Hidalgo 1805, Colonia Ladron de Gueyera, Guadalajara, Mexico. Tel: (3) 616-1036.
         -- David Christner would like to contact friends in the Family, including Ralph Hopper, Jerry McConkey, Isaac and Promise, Susanna and Sara (from Puerto Rico). Add: Suite 102A, 2831 Ringling Blvd., Sarasota, FL 34237. Tel: (408) 426-2144.
         -- Jerry Golland (formerly Golden) is looking for Robin Stewart (Zephaniah). Lived with him and Esther (Puerto Rican national) in Puerto Rico in early '80's. E-Mail: golland@mail.travel-net.com.

brief ads

Calling males
Ukraine
         (From Valour:) Fellow men, I wanted to write an advertisement about the wonderful women you can meet in the former Soviet Union. They are great!--Not only the sweet and hungry ones you meet when witnessing, but also the ones in the Homes. It totally amazes me to see all the things they are doing. Sometimes, however, they could use a man in the house to do things like: fix a car, a leaky tap, give them a compliment, etc.! Until you come, I'll do my best to help keep them happy; it's peanuts compared to how they make me feel!

pray for Mama

         (From Peter:) Thank you for your prayers for Mama's health and strength. Although she is very weak and bedridden, the Lord has miraculously helped her not to become as weak as naturally would be expected after bleeding for over a month. Please continue to pray that the bleeding will stop, and that the Lord will also protect her from headaches and colds.
         When asking the Lord what more we could do to aid the healing process, He said: "Tell everyone to keep praying, not to let their guard down, until My work of healing is finished. Keep up those vigils!         "As you take your praise times and prayer times, take a moment to plead for her. At all times of the day, at meals, before get-outs, before your work, when you pray for another, make it a habit to pray for My queen. She needs much prayer. She lives on your prayer power. That's her lifeline! Her body is so weak, so frail, and she carries such a big yoke--the yoke of all of you. So do your part in bringing her to Me."
         Thank you, dear ones, for joining in prayer for Mama's healing. We appreciate it greatly, and know that the Lord will answer--as He always does!
         [LNF: Mama's bleeding completely stopped just before press time! Hallelujah! Mama and all of us here greatly appreciate your prayers. Please pray that the Lord will help Mama regain her strength quickly, and keep her from any more periods for a while.]

Mama jewels on sharing the load
--to a young staff member

         In some ways it's nice to be the sole person responsible for a job, but in other ways you really get tied down and restricted. If you ever get sick, for example, you feel like, "My work's backing up, and there's nobody to do it!" But when you have a helper that can fill in for you, it puts your mind at ease. There are some definite advantages to having someone who can help take your place when necessary.
         Also, if you have somebody that can help, then you're more free to branch out and help with other projects. You do a very good job on all the work you're doing, and I know it's a little hard to move over and let other people help you, but you might be happy sometimes that you do have some help.--And the Lord always blesses giving.

tip of the day

         When using Word for Windows, if you press the F8 key, you enable what is referred to as "extend mode." This is a mode that allows you to select different portions of text. When this mode is active, the letters EXT appear bold on the status bar. You can then use the arrow keys to select text, or press a key to select text until that character (i.e., "Enter" will select until the end of the paragraph.)You can turn off the extend mode by pressing the ESC key, and then copy, cut or move the text. When you press the F8 key multiple times, you can select different parts of your text. Pressing F8 twice selects the current word. A third time results in the current sentence being selected. A fourth time selects the current paragraph, and a fifth time selects the whole document.

ws news
--from Mama's Home

Pubs progress
         On the pubs front, it's full steam ahead! The GN team is working on the 1998 Feast pubs, and many other goodies are in the pipelines. A number of Christmas Heaven's Library editions will be coming your way in late November and early December, several stories illustrated by a number of field artists--young and old!
         Sam and Greg in Thailand reported that they have finished printing all 10 books in the first printing batch, and will begin on the second batch shortly. We've received sample copies of some of these books, and they have come out beautifully! They will be shipping these books to the CRO areas in October. Please pray they will reach their destinations safely!
         Some of the young people at our Home, as well as other WS members (in other units) are pressing in to put together the rest of the books in time for the second printing batch. More books are being added to the line-up, and God willing, we'll be printing a total of 20 books in this batch! In the last few weeks, the following books have been finalized and are now on their way to our Thailand printing team: two FSM books, Power and Protection, MLKs, Teacher's Activity Guide, Lifelines 21 and 22, and From Jesus with Love, Volume 2. Please continue to pray for the production of these books, as well as the printing of them.

Home news
         Mama and Peter held a staff meeting, in which they shared with us a beautiful and lengthy vision which was received in honor of Mama's birthday. We all closed our eyes and enjoyed the spirit trip experience! Check out "Birthday Party Vision" (GN 751), soon to arrive in your mailbox!
         Peter and Matthew will be visiting some of our hard-working WS units in the near future to encourage them, and to see what they can do to help make their jobs easier and streamline productions further.

Two visitors
         One more tidbit of big news a daughter and grandson are here for a visit! That's right! Keana (Techi) and Trevor have come for a visit. Keana has been away for nearly two years at another WS unit, and Trevor (1 year, 8 months) has never visited. You can imagine the excitement and delight of all here to have these two special visitors.--Not only is it great fun having adorable Trevor running around the house, adding a new dimension to our lives, but it was Mama's first meeting with her grandson, as well as David's first time to meet his nephew--and what a sweet meeting it was!

ask-a-midwife
--By Rose Midwife, USA

         Q: Is it safe for a pregnant woman to have intercourse in her ninth month?
         A: This is really a Mat. 9:29 situation--"according to your faith be it unto you." There isn't really any damage you can do to the baby unless your water bag is broken. Or if you are close to labor, then having intercourse might make you go into labor.
         Dad at one time said that you shouldn't have intercourse during the last four weeks, and then later gave a Mt. 9:29 answer. Part of the reason Dad may have said it wasn't safe was because that is what the doctors' advice was at the time Mother Eve was having children. Since then, doctors have found no evidence of harm in this area, unless the water bag is leaking or broken, and then it could bring infection into the womb.
         For anyone who chooses to continue making love, they should follow the counsel in the pubs on positions for making love later in pregnancy (see Childcare Handbook #1, page 30), and it shouldn't hurt the mother. If it does hurt, you should either change positions or stop.

         Q: Why does a baby cry so much in the first few days of life? Is it because the baby is hungry?
         A: Normally the baby is not hungry, as his stomach needs to be cleaned out and can't handle milk yet--which is why all mothers have colostrum at first. The baby cries because inside the womb he is weightless and at birth he feels gravity for the first time (like when you have been in a swimming pool for a long time and then come out; you feel heavy). Baby also cries because he has never felt hot or cold, hungry or full before. Noises are louder to him and the light is brighter.
         Also, inside he always touched his mommy when he moved and now you want him to be alone in his bed. Likewise, he always heard the sound of mommy's heartbeat and his placenta. This is why he wants to nurse constantly; it's for security, not hunger. While nursing, he again touches mommy every time he moves and he can hear her heartbeat.
         You say, "But what about his placenta sounds?" How many times have you seen and heard someone holding a newborn on their shoulder? They usually bounce a little and hold the baby tight and make a noise which sounds like "swish, swish" (the placental sound!). People do this naturally the world over! Didn't the Lord think of everything?
         Another reason why your baby might cry is that when he grabs upward with one or both of his hands, he experiences a falling sensation, as he is used to feeling mommy all around him when making the slightest movement in the womb. So now, if he moves his arms around and feels nothing, he thinks you've dropped him.--Scary, isn't it? This actually shows you have a smart baby, but it is still scary for him. One thing that helps during his first days of life is to wrap him in a blanket with his arms inside, so that when he moves his arms they feel the blanket there, and then he doesn't experience the falling sensation. Not to worry!--Baby will adjust in about three to four days and will stop crying--at the same time your milk comes in. That's why most people think babies are just born hungry!

grapes of thankfulness

         Thanks to all who've helped the work here by your sacrificial gifts and prayers! We're so happy to be part of such a beautiful and caring Family!--Nepal team

         He was 17 when I first met him in India, and already he was so cool, wholehearted, an anointed cook, a sincere and winsome witnesser, fun CC helper, a good friend, and encouraging brother! One of those "and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper" people. (A single mom raised him and her other kids, GBH!--Job well done!) He's a sample of a bellwether who loves Jesus and others. Love ya, Paul (of Mary, Thailand)!--And a good daddy now and terrific singer.--D., Turkey

ladies and gents

she said: I've been finding out more and more each day as I grow in my new marriage that many little things "my man" doesn't seem to understand about me, and things he misses are really NOT INTENTIONAL! The things that I make such a big issue over, he honestly just doesn't see! It's beginning to dawn on me that men just think differently than women. I read an interesting article in Marvelous Marriage about the man being similar to a bull, versus the woman being more like a butterfly.
         If I can find a way to help him see these areas that are important to me without freaking out, then he is more than willing to change and comply with my heart's desires.--If he only knew what they were, ha! Poor guy! He is honestly dumbfounded sometimes at some of the things I bring up, such as the times when I feel he's ignoring me or being insensitive. I'm beginning to believe that I need to honestly (without frustration) continue to tell him my likes and dislikes, instead of relying on him reading my mind. God bless our precious men who put up with us day after day in our emotional upheavals. It was precious the way Mariko described her sweet mate (see Grapevine #20 "Coping with Polygamy"). I can say the same for mine.
         --Crystal (of Luke), ASCRO

he said: I think a lot of misunderstandings and bad feelings between the sexes could be avoided if we had better communication. For some of us, I think the temptation is to have the attitude of, "Let's just let things flow and be real casual about everything and things will work out." In my experience when you just "let things flow," they flow all right, but usually down the drain!
         I think many of us have experienced the scenario where you meet someone who seems to be a nice person, and there's an attraction there, and you think there could be a little more. But you don't talk about it because that would be awkward! Then you have this situation where perhaps the guy is thinking, "Wow, she super likes me!" Next thing you know images of romantic movies are dancing around in his mind (only the actors are substituted with him and pretty Ms. X), with thousands of violins in the background (or a snare drum) playing: "And I ayeeeeee oh ayeeeee willll always luvvvvvv ewe, oh ayeeee, willll alwaaaaaays lovvvve ewe!" -- We've all been there!
         In the meantime, pretty Ms. X is thinking no such thing, but rather is entertaining thoughts of, "Hmm, this is a real nice kind of part-time lover situation!" So we're left with two people perceiving the situation in two very different ways. If no one communicates, each person will carry their perception of the relationship on a hasty road right to its crash. -- We've all been there too!
         At times I've tried communicating with girls about their intentions, my intentions and what's between us (when we're not in bed, that is). While some are quite open, others respond with, "Argh, don't worry about it! Let's just be real casual and have casual sex and whatnot. Everything will be fine!" Hey, casual sex is alright with me (I hate wearing ties for those occasions anyway), but if our relationship, friendship or whatever, is going to last and everyone's going to come out of it as happy people, we're going to need to talk it out.
         --22-year-old male

she said: I think we've got great boys in the Family, and even though I've never had a System boyfriend, I'm sure that if I ever did, I would really appreciate how wonderful our boys are.
         When I read the Ladies and Gents section, I get the impression that the girls are trying to make Don Juans out of all our boys, when I think we have some already. I feel the old principle still applies: Look for the good in others and bring it out.--It's really the best way to make friends. I've met some real gentlemen, and I would say that I haven't been much of a lady.
         I know there is a need for more affection in our Homes, but I'm starting to see that it has to start with me. One thing that I think is missing in a lot of us teens' lives is more freedom of the spirit about affection. I'm really interested in what adults have to say on the subject; I feel we can learn a lot from them. Let's all try to look for the good in the opposite sex. Okay?
         --Ruth (18), Thailand

she said: Recently, becoming a single mom made me think a lot about whether boys would still love me just as much with my kid as they would without him. I've had various boys write and say, "Poor thing, I really feel bad for you. Although it will be a lot harder now, I hope you find the right guy." I'd sure like to get a letter that says, "Don't worry, boys will love you just the same!" If any of you guys have a comment regarding this, please write in.
         --female YA, Pakistan

he said: I was just reading over this Grapevine issue before it went to press, and I'd like to comment on your article. Please don't be discouraged or feel like having a kid will ruin your chances of getting a guy, or whether the boys will love you as much. If a guy really loves you, he'll love you just as much whether you have a child or not. If he doesn't, then in my opinion, he's not worth your time and you're better off with someone else. So your chances of finding the right one who will love and take care of you are still good!
         And to the guys, getting together with a girl who already has a child has many benefits: for one, you have a ready-made family and don't even have to wait at least nine months for your first kid! Plus, she'll probably be maturer and more experienced than other childless girls her age, because that's what motherhood does!
         --Francis Fisherman (28), WS

she said: A wee word in regards to our dear male populace: Since it seems quite popular to mention the rather unappealing things that we see in them, I thought I'd say a little something in their favor: I think they're just wonderful! It would be so nice if we could let up a bit on our dear boys. They seem to get "bashed" or scrutinized so much that I wouldn't be surprised if some of them start developing persecution complexes! Of course, a few tips and reminders always help, but on the whole, we all have our problems and shortcomings. I'm sure you'd all agree with that.
         Naturally, I have found some that are more to my personal liking than others; we all have our types and tastes. From time to time I run into some with whom--as one person so fittingly described it--my chemistry doesn't quite match. However on the overall, I think our guys are super terrific!! Where would we be without them?
         Maybe we could have a slot where some of us girls could write about some specific instances where guys have done special things and have been real gentlemen in order to show that it does happen! C'mon, girls, whadaya say? Let's let them know that we appreciate them! And this doesn't mean just our boyfriends or husbands, but the many others too! Guys, you are loved, wanted, appreciated and needed!
         --C. (20), Japan

cute kids
         -- When we were getting ready to go busking, Marime (7) said, "We can't go busking, it's going to disturb the bus driver!"--Timothy and Phoebe, Brazil
         -- Marina (3, of Jnatas and Hepsi) was helping me (Vida) wash the white furniture in the pool area. I commented, "These chairs are full of germs!" Marina replied, "Yes, these germs are so filthy. Let's give them a good bath!"--Vida, Brazil

now that's funny!

         An elderly priest invited a young priest over for dinner. During the meal, the young priest couldn't help noticing how attractive and shapely the housekeeper was. Over the course of the evening he started to wonder if there was more between the elderly priest and the housekeeper than met the eye.
         Reading the young priest's thoughts, the elderly priest volunteered, "I know what you must be thinking, but I assure you, my relationship with my housekeeper is purely professional."
         About a week later the housekeeper came to the elderly priest and said, "Father, ever since the young Father came to dinner, I've been unable to find the beautiful silver gravy ladle. You don't suppose he took it, do you?"
         The priest said, "Well, I doubt it, but I'll write him a letter just to be sure."
         So he sat down and wrote: "Dear Father, I'm not saying that you 'did' take a gravy ladle from my house, and I'm not saying you 'did not' take a gravy ladle. But the fact remains that one has been missing ever since you were here for dinner."
         Several days later the elderly priest received a letter from the young priest which read: "Dear Father, I'm not saying that you 'do' sleep with your housekeeper, and I'm not saying that you 'do not' sleep with your housekeeper. But the fact remains that if you were sleeping in your own bed, you would have found the gravy ladle by now."
         --courtesy of Kerenina, Kenya

peanuts 'n' raisins

         [Illustrated Comic: One day Isabella (4 yrs. Old) said: "I feel like singing a song I don't know, but since I don't know it I can't sing it." - Courtesy of John and Rose, Denmark.]

shine on

TEAMWORK         Per Adult        Total
SOUL SHINERS FOR AUGUST '97
Timothy F./Rejoice Eve/Dove F., U.S.A.   538      3,768
Samuel/Keren, Brazil     500      1,500
Ezequiel/Rejoice/Jonathan, Brazil        340      1,700
Peter/Cielo/Zacarias/Lucero, Colombia    333      2,336
Pablo E., Chile  243      731
Christian/Marco/Gabriel, Albania         233      1,168
Pablo/Love, Ecuador      230      460
Nehemias Swiss/Rosa, Brazil      185      370
Peter/Stephen/Joseph, Russia     179      1,255
Servant/Phoebe Holyhole, Mexico  166      500

POSTER SHINERS FOR AUGUST '97
Michael/Maria, Japan     2,727    5,454
Isacco/Sephora/Juan, Italy       1,893    7,574
James/Claire, Japan      1,305    6,529
Paul/Lydia, Japan        1,289    7,736
Steven/Mercy, Japan      1,237    3,711
Victor B./Love, U.S.A.   1,236    7,418
Timothy F./Rejoice E./Dove F., U.S.A.    1,181    8,267
Andrew/Ruth, Japan       1,093    2,186
Abner/Promise, Japan     1,048    2,096
Francis M./Joanna Rose/Maria N., U.S.A.  1,044    7,308

TAPE SHINERS FOR AUGUST '97
David/Madalena/Francisco/Joana, Brazil   113      569
Davide/Joan, Italy       108      217
Paulo/Maria Pionera, Brazil      85       170
Michael/Faith, Italy     75       150
Santiago/Clara, Brazil   66       200
Rebeca/Estrella Cromwell, Colombia       65       195
Andrew/Crystal/Ang/Maureen/Gabriel, U.S.A.       54       325
Josue M./Abigail M./Santiago E., Costa Rica      51       307
Rufus Reuben/Dulce/Nina, U.S.A.  46       140
Pablo E., Chile  43       130

VIDEO SHINERS FOR AUGUST '97
Jose/Ester, Colombia     51       103
Joseph/Rosa, Chile       45       91
Emanuel/Rubi, Ecuador    44       89
Joanna/Lily/James, Brazil        35       358
Matthew/Micah, Taiwan    27       162
Juan/Amor, Chile         25.5     51
Jimmy/Joy, Taiwan        25.0     50
Pablo/Love, Ecuador      22.0     44
Davide/Joan, Italy       22.0     44
Barz/Sara/Nina, Portugal         21.3     64
Timoteo/Cristal/Suzanna/Heaven, Brazil   21.2     149

FREE POSTER SHINERS FOR AUGUST '97
John/Mercy/Andres/Patience, Estonia      9,120    45,600
Benjamin/Lily/Mariangela, Ukraine        7,857    55,000
Matthew/Marie/Yana/Peter, Kazakhstan     7,696    46,178
Paul/Ruthie/Meekness/Miguel/David, Russia        5,537    22,148
Abner/Elisa/Mary/Mercy/Snezhana, Ukraine         5,494    38,458
Philip/Gentleness/Faith/Chiara, Ukraine  5,000    20,000
Gabe/Maria/Philip, Russia        3,900    11,700
Simon (Josh)/Julia, Poland       3,000    6,000
Daniel/Joanna/Vera, Russia       2,916    17,500
Tim/Joy/James, Ukraine   2,600    13,000

newdayz

Newdayz Comic strip. By David Komic

         Dean the Teen: "Hey, Dad, check out 'Rumor Mill'. Someone heard a rumor that they only have one meal a day at Mama's Home."
         Dad: "What?!! Let me see that, Son!"
         Dad (clicking on the calculator): " Hmm one meal a day instead of threemonthly food bills divided by three means BIG savings!"
         Dad (hugging his son) "What a GREAT IDEA! Thank you!!"
         Dean: "Oops! Mistake!"

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